Tuesday 21 November 2017

What does a postnatal doula do?

What do I do as a postnatal doula to support families with newborn babies? Here's a taste of 24 hours in the life of a postnatal doula.

I head off at 8.30pm ready to support a family overnight. They know I'm on call for a birth so my phone has to stay on at all times, just in case I'm called away, but tonight turns out not to be the night. When I arrive the parents update me on how their day has been and how the last two nights have been with the baby, since I was last there. We talk through the occurrence of colic in new babies and how this generally resolves by around 3 months - there is light at the end of the tunnel. They have some questions about what to expect at their six week check and we chat through how it's about the wellbeing of the baby and of the mother, and I warn them to expect a contraception chat with their GP. They resolve to tell the doctor that having a doula sleep in the room with mum and the baby is pretty effective contraception! On a more serious note, I explain how breastfeeding can be a method of contraception, but only when specific criteria are met, to do with fully breastfeeding on demand, and I What's App over a link for more information. The mum then has a bath whilst I look after their baby and dad heads to the spare room for a well deserved early night. I sleep on a mattress on the floor in the same room as the mum, next to the baby who is in a moses basket. This way I can ensure that mum gets the maximum amount of sleep possible, whilst still breastfeeding responsively to the baby's needs. During the night, this means winding and changing the baby, and settling her back to sleep after each feed. Over one dimly lit nighttime feed, we discuss postnatal depression and some of the ways the mother can take care of herself to lessen the chances of suffering from this most common of parental illnesses. I reassure her about how well they are doing as a new family and remind her of some of the recent successes and steps forward they have made as parents.

In the morning, with both parents refreshed, I head to my morning client. I make the family breakfast - porridge and tea - and then hold the baby so that the mum can get her eldest child ready for school. As dad heads off for the school run and to work, mum heads up for a sleep as she's been up feeding frequently throughout the night. Whilst she's upstairs, I pop the babies (twins) in a wrap sling and start to clear the kitchen. Whilst not a cleaner, I do give everything a once over, unload and reload the dishwasher and change the laundry over. The twins snooze happily on my chest as I prepare some vegetables that will keep for the family's dinner later this evening. As one then the other twin stirs, I feed them using expressed milk, and we have some tummy time on the playmat. As mum emerges from her sleep, I heat up some soup for her and then make sure that she has everything around her that she needs in order to relax whilst breastfeeding the twins.

I head on over to my afternoon client after lunch. She's been reading about baby massage and would like to talk about the benefits of it. I give her the details of a local baby massage specialist and after supporting her to bathe her baby (she's quite nervous as it's the first full bath for him), we use some oil and simple strokes to relax him before he has a snooze. Whilst the baby is asleep, I run the vacuum cleaner round and make a simple salmon dinner for the couple, leaving it ready to pop in the oven later on. I run the baby's bottles through the steriliser ready for the evening. Mum asks about the best way to make up formula whilst out and about, so we look together at the Unicef Babyfriendly guidelines on this and she decides that a flask of hot, boiled water is going to be the safest way to make up a feed when out of the house. We have a chat about something that has been niggling her since the birth, and I remind her about the birth afterthoughts service run by the local hospital which might be a way to explore her feelings further. Baby then has a poonami and as we change his nappy we talk about what is normal infant poo, and how often to expect a poo at this age. I pull out my knitted poo chart and we go through the colours and stages, and how it changes as he gets older. As a doula, baby poo is one of my main topics of conversation, and occasionally the subject of picture messages from anxious parents! I remind the mum that she can always talk to her health visitor if she is concerned.

I head off home for the day, where my dogs inspect me for baby-sick stains and any scents of other people's furry animals. They are rarely disappointed!

Monday 1 May 2017

Developing Doulas

So, how did I get to be a doula?

Well, I was a primary school headteacher so a large amount of my working life has been spent supporting families, most often mothers, in varying circumstances. Looking for a change, I investigated breastfeeding support as it was something I felt passionately about and this googling led me to look at doula training websites. Reading them I realised that I had 'doula'd' for various friends both through birth and postnatally and it sowed the seed that this could be something I wanted to do more of.

I'm the sort of person for whom 'accredited' is important when looking at training, so I found myself on Doula UK looking at the courses which would lead to DUK membership. I quickly decided that I wanted one covering both birth and postnatal support, and locality was important too (though I was the only Cambridge person on my course of 12 in the end, so people travel quite far for the right training - Newcastle was my group's furthest flung participant). I was very lucky to find that an accredited DUK course was being held right on my doorstep - Developing Doulas in Cambridge, so I called the course leader Maddie for more information.

Maddie and I had a long chat about breastfeeding counsellor training (which I was also committing to), doula training and me and my journey. I really felt valued and embraced in that call, as if I could be part of the team of doulas that were Developing Doulas. Maddie went on to 'doula' and mentor me even before the course started, offering infinite support and suggestions  as I made my first forays into offering voluntary postnatal support for some local women.

I was a little apprehensive about the training as I am not a 'woo' or at all hippy person - I like facts, evidence and preferably a randomised control trial for efficacy where my maternal health is concerned! Fortunately as the course progressed I was treated to a session on evidence-based practice, and although there were aspects which appealed to people more at ease with group sharing and alternative practice than I, it was a really good mix which I felt appealed to the broad range of people in the group I was fortunate enough to be in.

The group itself was one of the most important aspects of the course for me, alongside being educated and exploring my own knowledge and potential. The group of 12 quickly bonded and shared deep truths and stories about ourselves, knowing that our feelings and emotions would be 'held' and respected by the group. The group was diverse culturally, geographically and in their past experiences and future plans. My group contained hypnobirthing practitioners, ex children's and healthcare professionals, new mothers and grandmothers, community leaders and scientists. As someone who generally has more male than female friendships, I found a solidarity I wasn't expecting and a group of women (though men can and do train) who I could solidly rely on and trust. We have continued our support through a private facebook group where I continue to learn and be supported by them and I genuinely feel that if I turned up on any of their doorsteps in a crisis I would be taken in without question.

Having completed the course I think I turned around the fastest assignment in DD history, so keen was I to start my mentoring process with DUK. As a mentored doula I feel like there are layers of support radiating around me: there is my local group of Cambs Doulas who via facebook, phone, and in person offer both support, challenge and crucially, the majority of my current workload which comes from internal referrals from other doulas and the Cambs Doula web presence. Then there is the DD layer, comprising a facebook group for all DDs and my cohort's personal group page. This really extends out the experience I can access whilst being secure that the doulas posting have had similar training experiences to me and thus are likely to hold similar core values. On top of that there is the DUK layer, which via facebook and my excellent mentor offers a mix of professional and personal support and a wealth of experience and back up through policies and professional structure.

As I now grow my business I feel that being part of the Developing Doulas community gives me a solid base of support to draw upon in new or tricky situations and it is great to be able to be part of its community.

Sunday 30 April 2017

Birth Manifesto




Birth Manifesto


A 14 point plan to improve maternity, labour and postnatal care  
  1. 1.               Provide continuity and consistency of care and carer for pregnant women.
    2.              Enable all women to have the choice of home, birth centre and hospital births, ending the postcode lottery.
    3.              Normalise physiological birth by working to lower the emergency caesarean rates in the UK.
    4.              Fund doula support for vulnerable women, such as those at risk of domestic violence, refugees or women with perinatal depression.
    5.              Support independent midwives to practice, replace or reinstate the abolished Supervisor of Midwives tole and ensure regulation of midwives is fit for purpose.
    6.              Offer specialist perinatal mental healthcare across the country.
    7.             Ensure health professionals receive appropriate training and annual statutory updates on facilitating informed decision making, including an understanding of maternity care in a human rights context.
    8.              Reinstate grant funding of midwifery training.
    9.              Ensure optimal cord clamping is offered for babies, including those needing resuscitation.
    10.           Include the importance of an oxytocin-rich environment in the training of all birth professionals.
    11.           Fund community support for breastfeeding and infant feeding specialists and specialist midwives in hospitals.
    12.           Provide comprehensive antenatal and postnatal education for new parents.
    13.           Work to end the ethnic inequality in maternal and neonatal birth outcomes.
    14.           Celebrate birth as a positive experience to be honoured and respected.


1. National Maternity Survey, recommendation 2.1: 'Every woman should have a midwife, who is part of a small team of 4 to 6 midwives based in the community who know the women and family, and can provide continuity throughout the pregnancy, birth and postnatally.' 
NICE CG190 1.1.19: 'Maternity services should: provide a model of care that supports one‑to‑one care in labour for all women.'

2. National Maternity Survey, recommendation 1.3:  'Women should be able to choose the provider of their antenatal, intrapartum and postnatal care and be in control of exercising those choices through their own NHS Personal Maternity Care Budget.'
NICE Guideline CG190 1.1.2: 'Explain to both multiparous and nulliparous women that they may choose any birth setting (home, freestanding midwifery unit, alongside midwifery unit or obstetric unit), and support them in their choice of setting wherever they choose to give birth.'

3. Quality watch: 'Apart from Italy, UK has high and increasing C-section rates relative to the Nordic countries. OCED statistics 2013' ASPH re NICE CG190:
  'Irrespective of population a commitment and belief underpinned by sound understanding of the physiological process of childbirth improves women's' ability to labour and birth normally.' 

4. Cochrane report: 'We conclude that all women should have continuous support during labour. Continuous support from a person who is present solely to provide support, is not a member of the woman's social network, is experienced in providing labour support, and has at least a modest amount of training, appears to be most beneficial.' Also current project with Social Care in North Cambridge, findings not yet released.

5. IMUK: 'There is legislation in place to require all health professionals to have professional indemnity insurance. Our regulator, the Nursing and Midwifery Council (NMC), ruled in December 2016 that IMUK’s indemnity scheme was no longer sufficient, despite it having been deemed suitable by two independent actuaries. This decision is not based on evidence nor on our previous safety record. We have never received a complaint regarding our indemnity cover from either a client or another midwife. IMUK had chosen to use an indemnity product that mirrors the scheme used by the NHS.'

6.  National Maternity Survey, recommendation 4.1: 'There should be significant investment in perinatal mental health services in the community and in specialist care. '

7. NICE CG 138, 1.5.22: 'openly discuss and provide information about the risks, benefits and consequences of the investigation or treatment options (taking into account factors such as coexisting conditions and the patient's preferences)'

8. NHS:  If your course starts on or after 1 August 2017
You must be accepted for a place on a full or part-time NHS-funded course which will lead to you registering as a:

9. NICE CG190 1.14.14: 'Do not clamp the cord earlier than 1 minute from the birth of the baby unless there is concern about the integrity of the cord or the baby has a heart rate below 60 beats/minute that is not getting faster. If the woman requests that the cord is clamped and cut later than 5 minutes, support her in her choice.'
BASICS: Bedside Assessment, Stabilisation and Initial Cardiorespiratory Support trolley: 'The-state-of-the-art BASICS trolley can be manoeuvred alongside the bed for a normal delivery, as well as next to a caesarean section or assisted forceps delivery. This means that the baby can remain close to the mum at a time when she most wants to keep her newborn within sight. In addition, it means that the baby’s umbilical cord can be left intact, enabling doctors who believe delayed cord clamping offers benefits to babies, especially those who are weak or premature, to employ this technique while resuscitation takes place.'

10. BUCKLEY, S, AIMS JOURNAL 'The full expression of these labouring hormones requires specific conditions: that the labouring mother feels private, safe and unobserved. This basic need is recognised by traditional systems of maternity care, which prioritise the emotional well-being of the labouring woman and ensure that she is cared for in a familiar place with known and trusted helpers. These factors will keep her as calm and relaxed as possible, and her adrenaline levels low.'

11. Infant Feeding Survey, 2.5.6: 'These findings illustrate the fact that the main reason why so few mothers follow the recommendation of feeding exclusively until six months is due to the introduction of formula, either to replace or supplement breastmilk. Given that this is also associated with breastfeeding exclusively for a relatively short period, information and support for mothers in the early weeks to help them to breastfeed exclusively for longer is likely to have an impact.' 
NICE CG 37, 1.3.1: 'Breastfeeding support should be made available regardless of the location of care.' 1.3.3: 'All maternity care providers (whether working in hospital or in primary care) should implement an externally evaluated, structured programme that encourages breastfeeding, using the Baby Friendly Initiative as a minimum standard.'
1.3.15: 'From the first feed, women should be offered skilled breastfeeding support (from a healthcare professional, mother‑to‑mother or peer support) to enable comfortable positioning of the mother and baby and to ensure that the baby attaches correctly to the breast to establish effective feeding and prevent concerns such as sore nipples.'
UNICEF Babyfriendly Initiative, Step 3: 'Implement evidence-based initiatives that support breastfeeding, including the Unicef UK Baby Friendly Initiative, across all maternity, health visiting, neonatal and children’s centre services.'

12. National Maternity Survey, recommendation 2.3: 'Community hubs should enable them to access care in the community from their midwife and from a range of others services, particularly for antenatal and postnatal care.' 
NICE CG 37, 1.1.5: Women should be offered relevant and timely information to enable them to promote their own and their babies' health and wellbeing and to recognise and respond to problems.

13. ONS: 'Babies born in 2013 had an infant mortality rate of 3.8 deaths per 1,000 live births, compared to 3.9 deaths per 1,000 live births for babies born in 2012. Pakistani, Black Caribbean and Black African babies (6.7, 6.6 and 6.3 deaths per 1,000 live births respectively) had the highest infant mortality rates.'

14. NICE CG190 1.1.12: Providers, senior staff and all healthcare professionals should ensure that in all birth settings there is a culture of respect for each woman as an individual undergoing a significant and emotionally intense life experience, so that the woman is in control, is listened to and is cared for with compassion, and that appropriate informed consent is sought.
1.2.1: 'Treat all women in labour with respect. Ensure that the woman is in control of and involved in what is happening to her, and recognise that the way in which care is given is key to this. To facilitate this, establish a rapport with the woman, ask her about her wants and expectations for labour, and be aware of the importance of tone and demeanour, and of the actual words used.' 

REFERENCES:

BUCKLEY, S, IN AIMS JOURNAL 23, n4: www.aims.org.uk/?Journal/Vol23No4/undisturbedBirth.htm
COCHRANE REPORT: http://www.cochrane.org/CD003766/PREG_continuous-support-for-women-during-childbirth
INDEPENDENT MIDWIVES UK: http://www.imuk.org.uk/news/judicial-review-to-protect-independent-midwifery-begins/
INFANT FEEDING SURVEY 2010: http://content.digital.nhs.uk/catalogue/PUB08694/Infant-Feeding-Survey-2010-Consolidated-Report.pdf
NATIONAL MATERNITY SURVEY 2015 : https://www.england.nhs.uk/mat-transformation/mat-review/
NHS: https://www.gov.uk/nhs-bursaries/eligibility
NICE: https://www.nice.org.uk/sharedlearning/providing-a-choice-of-a-midwifery-led-unit-birth-centre-for-women-with-low-risk-pregnancies 
https://www.nice.org.uk/guidance/cg37
https://www.nice.org.uk/guidance/cg138/
https://www.nice.org.uk/guidance/cg190
ONS: https://www.ons.gov.uk/peoplepopulationandcommunity/healthandsocialcare/causesofdeath/bulletins/pregnancyandethnicfactorsinfluencingbirthsandinfantmortality/2015-10-14
QUALITY WATCH: http://www.qualitywatch.org.uk/indicator/international-comparisons-surgical-procedures 
UNICEF: https://www.unicef.org.uk/babyfriendly/baby-friendly-resources/advocacy/call-to-action/

Saturday 18 February 2017

Labour and birth bead line



On our Doula training course we were introduced to the idea of a beaded birth line, where beads are used to represent the different stages and phases of labour.

Katherine Woodbury offers workshops on how to make a beaded birth line and bead lines for sale, see her site for details: http://www.beyondbirthing.co.uk/beyond-birthing-workshops-for-collegues.html

Here is my birth line and the story for each bead.




The silver balls represent changes in stages so we start off with the latent phase of the first stage, with amber representing the rests and ruby representing the contractions. See how the rest periods gradually become shorter as the contractions or surges start to come closer together. We then move through the silver bead into active labour, where the contractions, now represented by the oval pink beads are more intense, and the rests, the pink spheres, are shorter and more predictable. This continues until the mother is around ten centimetres dilated, represented by the round pink bead showing the open cervix. We then may see the transitional stage - a starfish representing the spiky nature of transition experienced by some women, before passing into the second stage of labour.

At the start of the second phase, there may be a 'rest and be thankful' pause, illustrated by the oval teal bead, before involuntary pushing starts which is shown by the regular silver and lilac beads. At crowning, shown by the red bead representing the sensation of crowning, the baby starts to pass through the last stage of his or her journey and is born - the little blue baby bead.

After the birth of the baby, the placenta will be born, shown by a large red bead and the golden hour occurs, represented by the large gold bead. After that are four pearly days of colostrum as the mother and baby move into their fourth trimester, shown by the large golden heart at the end.

Thursday 2 February 2017

Dealing with toddlers hitting and biting

Sometimes when a newborn comes along, older toddlers can react by changing their own behaviours to try and help them deal with the new situation. Biting and hitting are very common behaviours amongst 1-3 year olds, whether they are in a house with a new baby, or just growing up and challenging the boundaries set for them.

First try to consider why your child might be biting or hitting. Reasons can include:

* not being able to communicate their needs verbally
* feeling their space is being invaded by another person
* experimenting with new sensations or a feeling of control over someone else
* sensory overload - too much noise/light/stimulation
* are teething/needing oral stimulation
* wanting to show love or affection (yes, really, they may not realise how much it hurts)

Then look to see if there is a trigger for the behaviour - is it the same child, when your child is tired or bored, is it at a certain place like nursery or home or around a certain toy or activity? Try to remove or reduce the triggers if possible or if not, be even more vigilant when around the triggers to try and catch you child before they bite or hit - this is the most effective strategy.

When you child does bite or hit someone else, you can try to:

* respond with a firm 'no - biting/hitting hurts'. Use the same phrase consistently and share it with all your child's carers.
*tell your child what you do want them to do, 'use gentle hands' or 'smiling mouths', again being consistent with the phrase used.
* check on the other child's wellbeing and pay them attention. Ensure your child is not receiving all the attention (positive or negative) as this can reinforce the behaviours.
* explain very simply to your child the effect on the other person's feelings, 'Jenny is crying because biting hurts'. Avoid blaming your child or labelling them as 'naughty', instead talk (very briefly) about the behaviour.
* re-engage the child who has bitten/hit out in another activity.
* ensure that you are praising them when they are showing appropriate behaviours - be specific, 'I like it when you hug me', 'good gentle hands with the cat'.

Remember that all new behaviours take time to learn - there are no magic bullets. Often these behaviours reduce as your child becomes more verbally able, so if you are concerned that your child is having trouble communicating in an age-appropriate way, seek the advice of a speech and language therapist via your doctor or health visitor.

Books can be a great way of learning new behaviours, try sharing Teeth are Not for Biting, Hands are Not for Hitting, or No Biting regularly to reinforce the behaviours you do want to see.

There is little research on toddler biting, but the Early Years Childhood and Parenting Collaborative have brought together what research there is here. Interestingly, they note one study showing toddlers in a large nursery initiated an average of around 3 bites per 100 days in the nursery falling to about 0.5 bites per pre-schooler per 100 days, showing that this phase does usually pass!

Tuesday 3 January 2017

Dunkirk Refugee Camp day 8

So my time here has come to an end. I've been pleased to pass my English group onto some lovely ladies from the adult learning centre, who will continue the outreach lessons with the women in the Women's Centre, as some don't want to access mixed gender classes or formal classes per se. I was very proud as they showed off the skills they have learnt over the last few days. In the Children's Centre we finished off our flower garden - the children loved collaging and were very dedicated and neat in their work.

If I didn't have children of my own I'd quit England and stay - it's such a transient group of volunteers that the long term wonder-workers have their work cut out for them. It's never just teaching, it's fixing the generator, making the oil fires work, and keeping track of all the resources which are 'Ali Baba'd' (stolen) from under our noses and out of our pockets.

Thank you for all your donations, they have been put to fantastic use buying resources for both the Women's and Children's Centres and have brought much needed fun and distraction into the lives of many.

Monday 2 January 2017

Dunkirk refugee camp day 7 part 2

So, on a slightly more lighthearted note, I thought I'd share the current contents of my bag and pockets.

Pockets:
packs of tissues, for me and the children
handwash, used religiously
pack of bubbles - great for a quick kid distraction
charger cable and phone - charge where you can, when you can
vaseline for my poor chapped lips

Bag:
spoon, cup, plate - if food appears you want to be able to eat it
nail varnish - see bubbles above, but for the women
nail varnish remover and pads - some of the muslim women need to remove it to pray
sharpie and xl post its - my key teaching aid since the mini whiteboard walked
hairbrush - I am constantly in a hat/buff and my hair is wild under there
extra gloves - it is super cold
mini-notebook for Kurdish phrases (Choney Bashi, people!) and noting cabin numbers for emergency deliveries of blankets etc                        
more tissues - honestly, everyone has a cold and/or a cough
the last of my English chocolate

Dunkirk refugee camp day 7

So last night I got a call from a camp resident, as their friend, her child (daughter aged about 7) and husband had got stuck on a lorry headed the wrong way - to Paris not to London. I learnt today that they were stuck in the lorry and had to call the police to help them get out as they were suffocating. The police got them out but left them in Paris. After sneaking on a train to Lille, they ended up stuck there, an hour's drive or more from the camp. Hence the rescue mission to get them. Today I got the biggest hugs and kisses as a reward. I have heard about a family who didn't have anyone to contact who ended up spending 4 days walking back to the camp from Paris after a similar experience.

In the Children's Centre today we had a New Year's party for the children which they all enjoyed lots. Today I have been mainly laminating volunteer information signs to support the smooth running of the centre - always the teacher!

The camp was without electricity and running water this morning. Thankfully the problem was fixed at lunchtime as I think there would have been riots over the small supply of bottled water available. There is certainly a camp 'mafia', who control some access to supplies and there was a stabbing on site which was likely to have been related to smuggling. Mostly though, people are kind and generous and I get offered shares in food and someone even tried to give me a replacement pair of boots today as they had noticed the zips had gone on mine. It isn't perfect, but there is hot food, clean water, mostly sanitary toilets and oil for heaters. It's not the jungle.

Dunkirk refugee camp day 6

I would blog about today, but I have to now drive to Lille to pick up a family who got on a lorry going to Paris instead of the UK. Mum, dad and an under 10. As you do.

UPDATE:
Safely returned to the camp, including the 7 year old girl who'd also been in the lorry that went to Paris instead of the Uk.